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A love and dating advice podcast for the friend you can't listen to anymore. New episodes every Wednesday>
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Mar 18, 2020
Mar 18, 2020
1hr 20 min
Staying in can be FUN, and GREAT for your dating life! I mean it; so do it. Whether you go on FaceTime dates (Love Is Blind-style without the blind!), rediscover your love of watercolor painting, or find out you LIKE someone you recently started dating beyond just the sexual, take this time for YOU and for both your relationships with other people and with yourself. MEANwhile I talked to Cameron the self-proclaimed introvert (who must be LIVING right now) about how to be more social, get out there, take risks, step out of his comfort zone, and STOP self-sabotaging through a shield of perfectionism. This will all be very useful when we can interact in person again, but it also applies NOW! Take a risk, put yourself out there, and get to know someone for real before meeting them for real. Listen up!
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Mar 11, 2020
Mar 11, 2020
1hr 25 min
What do you do when everything is "perfect" in a relationship except a fewwww key things? And if you were all of a sudden told you were terminal, what would you do? Go have a sexual revolution? That's what my guest Nikki Boyer's best friend Molly did, and they were generous enough to make a podcast about it! Nikki and I talk about what it was like for her to vicariously go on this journey and what she learned about sex and dating and herself in the process. Nikki is also making it work as a stepmom of two girls and we get into ALL that, since if you're out there dating you might just become a step-parent yourself. This is a juicy one with candid talk about how to navigate love, marriage, illness, sex, and blended families. Whew! Settle in and listen up!
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Mar 3, 2020
Mar 3, 2020
1hr 37 min
Health and wellness coach and Single Out in the Field Alex Jospin is BACK this week to talk Love Is Blind (what can we learn from this apparent disaster), our dating book club pick "Come As You Are" (what can we learn from this MIRACLE of a sex help book), AND her dating life! From sex and vulvas to why Jessica needed to GET OVER HERSELF, we cover it ALL! Listen up!
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Feb 26, 2020
Feb 26, 2020
1hr 19 min
Comedian Audrey Stewart is lunging at women out in the world (consensually) and LOVING IT!!! Sometimes. Other times she's beating herself up and doubting herself and questioning dating as a whole, just as everyone does, straight, gay, queer, and all of it. Lesson is: the journey to becoming you isn't easy and neither is the journey to finding someone to love you for you, but it's worth it. And it WILL get easier if you stick with it and keep pushing against that cocoon til you're free. Listener Q: the date was amazing but then she asked for space. Do I give it? How much? And whyeeeee!?! Listen up!
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Feb 19, 2020
Feb 19, 2020
1hr 27 min
Who knew that wedding planners have the true T when it comes to what works and what doesn’t in dating and relationships?? I did! And now you will too. I ask Jason what it takes to call off a wedding, how to make sure you get the make out when you attend a wedding, and how his career in weddings has affected his own dating life. Jason is wise, kind, and patient and it is AMAZING how much the right way to plan a wedding is also the right way to DATE! And bonus question of course: how do I make sure people make out at MY wedding!?! And from a listener, what do I do if I'm not getting enough physical affection in my relationship? Get into it. And listen up!
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Feb 12, 2020
Feb 12, 2020
1hr 8 min
With V-Day right around the corner, it’s the perfect time for some adventures just for the sake of adventure! It doesn’t HAVE to be a full one night stand, but there’s nothing like a wild date or saucy make out with someone you “know isn’t right” to breathe some life back into your dating routine. Take the holiday for yourself and embrace being single and chasing after stories to tell, like our guest, comedian Taylor Miller who has become a first date expert in the process. Put yourself out there, make some mistakes, and surprise yourself with both how fun and freeing it can be. You got this. Listen up!
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Feb 5, 2020
Feb 5, 2020
1hr 16 min
Alex named this episode! She's going to be my Single Out in the Field, testing out my methods, my assignments, my techniques, and her new vagina. Learn how to FINALLY get closure on a tough breakup, when to push through someone not being your "type" and how soup can sometimes be sexual. We're also gonna talk more about bodies, sex stuff, intimacy, what's it's really truly like out there and how to make it better. Send us your questions, and listen up!
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Jan 29, 2020
Jan 29, 2020
1hr 17 min
Why do couples who post a ton on social media usually end up not working out? Does Bumble ever really work for anyone? And HOW can we get more comfortable with all the weird body things that come along with actually being intimate with someone? Frances Tang and I discuss all of this and she is an EXPERT. The badass founder of Come and Gone, the after-sex cleanup sponge has a LOT to say about online dating and your sex life. Listen up!
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Jan 22, 2020
Jan 22, 2020
9 min
What do you do if you suspect cheating? And want a private sesh with me for free? Of course you do!! Subscribe to and hop on my GetVokl channel tonight at 7 PM to ask me your questions in real-time and win a free coaching! I’ll see you there….
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Jan 16, 2020
Jan 16, 2020
2hr 4 min
Hosts of the Best Exes Podcast Gabe and Colton join me to talk about their breakup, breakups and what we learn from them, HOW they managed to make something healthy and even valuable out of their breakup and how we move forward with dating after a particularly tough one. They are wise and witty and fun and their stories are GREAT, so get into it and listen up!
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